Yesterday I attended the funeral of my cousin, Murry. He was only 49 years old. For many people, a cousin's death would not be that big of a deal. But for us, our extended family is very close. There were 10 relatives from out of state who came to the service. In total, there were 40 Thackeray family members there (plus the other side of the family).
When the Thackerays get together a good time is guaranteed. And the funeral was no different. Though we were sad, we had a good time talking, laughing, and reminiscing. I am so grateful for extended family and the influence that they have had in my life. I love them all.
This photo is from our family party in August. He helped cook dutch oven potatoes-- yum! We will miss Murry. He was such an incredible person and a force for good in the world.
It is at times like this that I am grateful for my knowledge of the Plan of Salvation. Families are forever. We will see each other again one day. On resurrection morning, our bodies and spirits will be reunited, and we will experience a "fullness of joy." It is this knowledge that makes it possible to endure the passing of a loved one like Murry. Life is Good! So Good!
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I really love this post as well as the last several posts you've written. Its been a while since I've checked your blog, and catching up has provided me with such good reads. Thanks for your comment on my blog. I started that entry in September, but couldn't finish it and actually only did last night. Its interesting that we have both had similar thoughts on our minds. I'm sorry about your loss. I really believe what Elder Wirthlin said that Conference...Sunday will always come. It has also come to me this year, as I've seen a number of friends and peers pass through the veil, that death is a much more normal part of the Plan than I'd realized. I'm grateful, so grateful for knowledge of an afterlife.
And now I've typed way too much :). Thanks again for your thoughts. It was really good to read several of your posts. You're wonderful and I love your perspective!
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